Let’s face it: not every bride dreams of the bridal shower where she’ll eat cucumber sandwiches holding her pinky finger up all day listening to classical music. There are some brides – human brides – who would prefer something a bit more original and different. There are some great ideals for bridal shower themes for unique brides.

Secret #1: Always think of the bride. When it comes to planning the best bridal shower ever, refer to secret #1: always think of the bride. The bridal shower should be an expression of the bride's personality and taste - not just an event for friends and family. It is the ideal time to say something about who the bride is as an adult woman and to celebrate her becoming a married woman. Begin looking into what she likes and doesn't like so you can know what will make her the happiest. It is in uncovering these answers that you’ll find the perfect shower most often for the “unique” bride.

A bridal shower in a unique place can be an excellent choice. If the bride has always loved the aquarium, see if you can plan her bridal shower there. If the bride is a history buff, look into having the shower at a local historic home that is open to the public. You might be surprised at how mahy different options there are for venues for special events. Some can be exobitant, while others can cost very little. But you’ll only know if you ask….

Sometimes finding the perfect menu can mean you can execute the perfect shower. Is the bride a chocoholic? Have a sweet chocolate theme and serve only desserts and other tempting treats with coffees and teas. Perhaps the bride has been a margarita girl at heart (and who isn’t?)…then try a margarita shower at her favorite Mexican restaurant complete with Mariachi band. A bride who is a fan of Asian food would love a sushi-themed bridal shower. Or the wine loving bride might especially enjoy a bridal shower in a vineyard that featured a wine tasting. Some brides might be "foodies" and very concerned with the menu - others may not care.

With all brides it is critical that those near and dear to her attend. This is not just the unique bride – but for every bride. To plan the perfect unique bridal shower you need to plan it well in advance so loved ones have enough time to travel or prepare to come. You will have a very disappointed bride on your hands if her great grandmother or college roommate cannot attend.

Don't go crazy when it comes to planning. Most people will not nitpick if the napkins don't match, or if something is spelled wrong on the invitation. But they will notice the big things. They’ll notice if the bridesmaids and other ladies planning it are stressed about planning the shower – bridal showers should be fun! Shower guests will notice if you’ve run out of ice or cups or napkins. Anyone else who gets too fussy should be reminded it’s the bride’s day to be the fussy one.

 

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