She's currently out of your life, but you obviously want her back into it. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. Some would say using these tactics is borderline immoral. Their opinions don't count when it comes to getting her back.

You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. Employers use these tactics with employee of the month. Production is way up as everyone battles to win the shiny plaque.

She returns your call without you even asking
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren't demands for payment that is! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.

By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. She's curious as to why you want to thank her, and then pride kicks in because you've thanked her. We all love being thanked. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.

The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. But she did anyway and that was the whole point of the exercise.

I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. And some other tricks like this.

Memories are there to be used
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.

When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. Her mind will start to think you when she thinks about or hears that song because it was on in the background of your phone conversation. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.

Make her a bit jealous & curious
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.

As long as you aren't dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

Those are just a few of the many psychological mind games you can use to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.

What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.

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